Since the CDTC I have been faced with a dilemma.
While I was in Punta Cana, the people that I associated with were of the highest caliber. True, we were all working towards a purpose, but the true character of truly remarkable people emerged. The dilemma I face is that I want them daily in my life without any possibility of that happening.
While I have talked or communicated with most of the Aquanauties on an almost daily basis since the CDTC and have had some awesome times with others, I find that I am setting the bar in my daily interactions to that standard. In some cases, such as my wife, manager and many friends it is an easy goal to achieve, in others I find that they just don't stack up. Many are ok with me helping them achieve greatness, others are content with mediocrity. Some would rather bring me down to their level rather than allow me to bring them up to mine. It is hard to explain other than this: While the awesomeness is amazing, the mediocrity is frustrating... hence my dilemma.
This evening I spent a couple of hours with someone who is truly of a remarkable caliber. I had not seen her since we both graduated high school together 30 years ago. The conversation that we had was if we had never parted and it gave me another characteristic of a truly remarkable human being. In the conversation afterwards my wife and I tried to describe to each other what we had experienced. The answer was simple, events are more important than things, people are more important than events. What good is a selfie compared to a groupie? While you may experience a place what does that compare to experiencing a soul?
Philosophy aside the answer is simple. Spend time with people and put your phone away. Spend time with people because they are awesome. If you find you are with people and have a desire to be elsewhere, change your people.
The simple explanation is this:
If people make you better, spend time with them.....if people need help, help them... if people are beyond help, spend some time trying to encourage them and do what you can for them... if people are destructive and negative, thank them and move on.
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